The Namesake

I just returned from the Indian Cinema at the flash mall, (Flash is cool in Kiwi! - learned that in India) where I saw the movie The Namesake. It is based on the book by Jhumpa Lahiri. It is a story of an Indian couple from Kolkata that moves to America, where they have children and the culture struggle that ensues as their children grow up. It is an amazing story of family, and ties to ones' mother country. I highly recommend it. It was incredible to be in Kolkata and watch this story unfold, with its flowers and saris and rickshaws, as I am sitting in between several women all decked out in full Indian regalia. A art imitating life imitating art experience at its fullest.
This time in India has been extremely trying as women here are second class citizens, no matter what their caste. I am constantly aware of covering my body and the male eyes that quickly fix themselves on any bare body part, including ankles or elbows. We have spent so much time talking about marriage, arranged and love, and the role of wife and husband in India and the western world. The concept of family is different here than at home, and yet love for your family is the same no matter what your responsibility to them, or your moral obligation. I am so full of emotion after these three weeks. Anger at the way I have been treated, and knowing that so many women consider that normal. Frustration over car horns, poverty, children being forced to beg by their parents, a government that is too corrupt to do anything, and what my role is supposed to be as a tourist. It was fulfilling to see an Indian character, who is very American, and yet Indian struggling with these same issues and what his role is to be in his own family. Just go see it!

My tour ended today. Most of the group members dispersed, it was sad to see everyone go, as we had bonded so well. It is interesting to think that my trip in India will forever be connected to these people I did not know three weeks ago, and may never see again.
We are staying at St. Monica's Guesthouse, which is connected to St. James Church across the street from Mother Theresa's House. I will start my volunteer work in the orphanage tomorrow. I am hoping a few days there will help to redeem my heart after walking past so many children in such destitute situations. I can't wait to get back to my children - a true teacher at heart!

Let me know how you liked the movie!